This tutorial will show you the proper way to ask your genealogy questions in a forum setting; etiquette, common sense rules and how to provoke a positive and useful response.
(1) Don’t write in all capitals; SURNAMES only. In the online world writing in capitals is used to imply shouting.
Don’t – I’M MARY, MY GRANDMOTHER IS MABLE MAUDE JOVAN B. 1928 IN CLARENDON.
Do - I’m Mary. My grandmother is Mable Maude JOVAN b. 1928 in Clarendon.
(2) Provide as much detail as you can; results will be much better. Create the post as if we nothing, because until you tell us, we don’t. Include enough information in the message to warrant a proper response. Listing surnames and locations without full details will only get responses asking for more information. Instead, provide users with as much info as you an give to solicit a connection; dates, locale, parents, siblings, occupations, travels etc.
Don’t – Looking for SMITH, JONES, BROWN, JOVAN
Do – My grandmother is Mable Maude JOVAN b. 1928 in Clarendon, Jamaica. Her brother was John, sisters: Catherine, Louise, Agatha, and Aunt Fanny (pet name). I think Mable was the last born. John went to do farming abroad (where, when). Their father was called Uncle Sonny. We are related to SMITH JONES BROWN from Mocho, Clarendon, Jamaica.
(3) Subject & Message Body
Do not attempt to post your entire message in the subject. Do not post subject headings that offer no information “need help”, “looking for my father” or similar headings. The subject should clearly state your SURNAMES of interest, the LOCATION and any other relevant info that would summarize your query.
Do - SMITH, JONES, BROWN, JOVAN – Little London, Westmoreland, Jamaica
(even though your query will be posted in the Jamaica Forum, include the word ‘Jamaica’ in the subject and message so that it will show up in searches)
(4) Don’t mention your living relatives especially your parents without their permission! You will see this as the norm on genealogy boards worldwide; don’t do it! Identity theft is very easy when you have all the info you need.
Don’t – Hi I’m Mary, my mother is from Clarendon and her maiden is BROWN. My father is John George MITCHELL. Her grandmother is Mable Maude JOVAN b. 1928
Do- Hi, I?m Mary. My grandmother is Mable Maude JOVAN b. 1928 in Clarendon, Jamaica. I am looking for ancestors and descendants from those or other areas of Jamaica.
(5) Roll Calls
Do not put “Roll Call” in the subject heading, there is no one by that name. When listing the surnames you are looking for, try to break them into smaller posts and tell us about each of them; don’t list more than four at a time. List the surnames and location in the subject.
(6) Organize your query so that it is easy to read; break it small paragraphs especially if you have a lot of info. In that case you may want to discuss a few people and create a new topic for the others.
(7) If you’ve found a connection explain how you are connected, don’t just say you are; remember the board is help everyone make a connection. Many people get to this point and then begin corresponding privately leaving all others in the dark. Share!
Don’t ? Hi I think we are related, I believe I?m your cousin.
Do – Hi, my grandmother is xyz b. 1920 in St. Vincent. Her father is xyz and mother is xyz. She had two sisters; Mary and Jennie. If this rings a bell we are related.
(8) Update Your Posting (s)
If you after you have placed your post you find some clues or solve your mystery, update your post and share your findings with others that may also be looking; you may find even more clues thereafter.
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